Assalamualaykum,
For most of the time, we chose to be with someone. You know, someone that you really love to be aside with, name it: boyfriend, girlfriend, families, father, mother, mak cik, pak cik, and all. And for smallest part of your time, you really need to set yourself apart from stuffs that matter to you. It's not like isolating yourself, it is more of kinda setting yourself permanently to be in that state of loneliness, but, it's like giving you soul a spare of time to enjoy yourself. By being in silence, by being full of sense towards yourself.
Seriously, I don't really know where is this post is going, but I will keep on writing. Actually, I just watched (apparently, accidentally watched it) in my friend's room with his idk-32-inch-LCD television a movie named 'Unstoppable'. Really, it is a good movie, though at first, I really didn't see how the plot is going to be built, but it turned out that, a crashing overspeed train movie isn't really that bad. You guys should watch it.
We always consider ourselves to be the best (if not, you should!), and that is not what happened in real life always. It is seldom. But for most of the time, we always consider ourselves to 'deserve' the best, because it's our nature to love, to want something that is good, better or best. We don't actually look at something that is under what we want. Though it is normal, sadly, it is really not that normal. Because we judge everything that is in front of us to be either it is good, or not good; rather than that, shouldn't we judge either a certain thing is 'good' or 'better'? Without any negativity on everything, just a degrees of goodness that we measure, everything that we look into our lives will be totally different, totally different view.
Especially when it comes to judging a person. No, first of all, I'm not telling you the 'art of judging', no, not something like that, what I am about to say is the 'art of looking' at a person. It doesn't necessarily need for you to approach and to know someone by seeing them (but judging does really need em', relatively). Okay.
When we look at person, especially for someone who is new, we really look at him to see him at the state of where he is, at that particular time. We don't really see how he can progress, we don't really see how is he gonna be any better, or maybe we don't really see him to be, you know, something that will turn out good. I saw a status in Fb earlier this evening: "Look at your friends, and ask yourselves. Do you want to see them in Jannah?" It is simple really. Because this simple questions determines of where is your state of looking, and state of being in social relationship with others, where? And most importantly, it has the answer on the question: of who are you and what have you done really for your friends?
So, friends. There are many types of them. I am not a good one, I am pretty sure of it, but looking at people by 2 different classes won't get you anywhere, in front of them, or in front of God. Seriously, you will not go anywhere. But if see them in one class, a class of people that you are really in there, and moving in one exact direction, surely, things are working up to something much more awesome. I don't want to get you guys strangled up due to my words, but, as simple as this you should understand: " It's not about dakwah right now that we should be talking first, but it is about how we look at someone (at least your daily peeps) is the first thing first, because the way you look at people, actually helps you to clear your mind and make a clear final edge on how your nawaitu will end. A success"
Stop saying 'he is not suitable for me', 'he's not a type of friend that I will ever ever EVER gonna talk', or some others standardizing-freak attitude upon others, and start looking everything like a cat. Cat goes to the people that he thinks is good to feed him foods, but, if the person insists, he won't judge him. He just go away.
in sya-Allah. it 12.12.12. No important bikabom announcement to be made. Teehee.
Assalamualaikum.
For most of the time, we chose to be with someone. You know, someone that you really love to be aside with, name it: boyfriend, girlfriend, families, father, mother, mak cik, pak cik, and all. And for smallest part of your time, you really need to set yourself apart from stuffs that matter to you. It's not like isolating yourself, it is more of kinda setting yourself permanently to be in that state of loneliness, but, it's like giving you soul a spare of time to enjoy yourself. By being in silence, by being full of sense towards yourself.
Seriously, I don't really know where is this post is going, but I will keep on writing. Actually, I just watched (apparently, accidentally watched it) in my friend's room with his idk-32-inch-LCD television a movie named 'Unstoppable'. Really, it is a good movie, though at first, I really didn't see how the plot is going to be built, but it turned out that, a crashing overspeed train movie isn't really that bad. You guys should watch it.
We always consider ourselves to be the best (if not, you should!), and that is not what happened in real life always. It is seldom. But for most of the time, we always consider ourselves to 'deserve' the best, because it's our nature to love, to want something that is good, better or best. We don't actually look at something that is under what we want. Though it is normal, sadly, it is really not that normal. Because we judge everything that is in front of us to be either it is good, or not good; rather than that, shouldn't we judge either a certain thing is 'good' or 'better'? Without any negativity on everything, just a degrees of goodness that we measure, everything that we look into our lives will be totally different, totally different view.
Especially when it comes to judging a person. No, first of all, I'm not telling you the 'art of judging', no, not something like that, what I am about to say is the 'art of looking' at a person. It doesn't necessarily need for you to approach and to know someone by seeing them (but judging does really need em', relatively). Okay.
When we look at person, especially for someone who is new, we really look at him to see him at the state of where he is, at that particular time. We don't really see how he can progress, we don't really see how is he gonna be any better, or maybe we don't really see him to be, you know, something that will turn out good. I saw a status in Fb earlier this evening: "Look at your friends, and ask yourselves. Do you want to see them in Jannah?" It is simple really. Because this simple questions determines of where is your state of looking, and state of being in social relationship with others, where? And most importantly, it has the answer on the question: of who are you and what have you done really for your friends?
So, friends. There are many types of them. I am not a good one, I am pretty sure of it, but looking at people by 2 different classes won't get you anywhere, in front of them, or in front of God. Seriously, you will not go anywhere. But if see them in one class, a class of people that you are really in there, and moving in one exact direction, surely, things are working up to something much more awesome. I don't want to get you guys strangled up due to my words, but, as simple as this you should understand: " It's not about dakwah right now that we should be talking first, but it is about how we look at someone (at least your daily peeps) is the first thing first, because the way you look at people, actually helps you to clear your mind and make a clear final edge on how your nawaitu will end. A success"
Stop saying 'he is not suitable for me', 'he's not a type of friend that I will ever ever EVER gonna talk', or some others standardizing-freak attitude upon others, and start looking everything like a cat. Cat goes to the people that he thinks is good to feed him foods, but, if the person insists, he won't judge him. He just go away.
in sya-Allah. it 12.12.12. No important bikabom announcement to be made. Teehee.
Assalamualaikum.
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