Misteri Oghe Kelate

Assalamualaikum,

Pertama tamanya kalau ada salah silap, sila tegur ye sebab baru bangun tidur dan masih lagi berlegar legar lagi idea nak blogpost ni. Apa apa pun, aku rasa lega teramat sangat sebab semalam berlalu sudah paper yang aku labelkan baca-harus-tak-baca-sunat yakni paper Philosophy. Barangkali ini subjek yang paling 'pointless' sepanjang aku menuntut di sini. Dan aku rasa aku tak keseorangan dalam menyatakan pendapat ini.

Oramg kelantan, atau dalam dialek mereka sendiri 'ore kelate' atau dialek aku 'oghe kelate' (sebab aku orang utara eheh) punyai ciri berbeza dalam adat tradisi orang melayu itu sendiri. Dalam entry blog kali ni, aku takkan fokuskan sangat pada betapa cantiknya orang kelantan ni, atau any political views regarding TGNA or whatsoever, but I'm focusing more on 'why kelantaneses are always being stereotype and why us (the non kelantanese) also being stereotype to the kelantanese?'. Big question really keeps bugging in my mind. Well, instead of thinking the stupid AUKU ban being fight by the so-called 'Mahasiswa Malaya', I think its better to put my mind into something small but rather really big and interesting. The Kelantanese.

According to the statistics, the most of the Malaysian beautiful women are from Kelantan. Yes, we do have some in some other cities, but most of them are bitchy. According to statistics, again I repeat. But, why kelanteneses are always being discriminated? And it comes when socializing and marriage. Big thing comes to marriage. Yes I do saw that kelantanese always socializing among them ONLY back then in INTEC and in here. No big deal because, thats not entirely true because I also have friends who are their housemates from other states. So thats actually not a problem.

So, whats the fuss about marriage? You know its kind of absurd because all that I know is, when non kelantanese man wants to marry a kelantanese women, not when the kelantanese men wants to marry a a non kelantanese women, or perhaps I havent meet any of these cases before.

According the non kelantanese, marriage with kelantanese is a big deal, because it is troublesome. And maybe this rules applied to the northern states of Malaysia only, I don't know. But we as the UTARAS, our mother kind of not prefering kelantanese. Why? Their cooking. Most of kelantanese loveeeeee sweet dishes, which in contrary, the utaras are not the big fan of. Utaras are the spicy-freak. Its actually not a big deal since our mother is always being protective, and the most sensitive part of it, is about what his son gonna eat. Big risk, according to them. I bet, the same about mothers in Kelantan right? Tell whos mother are not being particular about what her children eat? Second is, their dialect. In fact of their un-understandbale dialect, its actually can cause miss communication. Thats why. But what I see right now, they can talk both, the KL and the KLantan. So, maybe for certain people only, maybe. Some of my friend (from Kelantan, which is weird) said that they are queen control kind of women. Myth. I dont know really as we both men and women totally gonna change after marriage. Totally!

But according to Kelantanese upon marrying non kelantanese, they have several reasons: firstly, balik kampung, second, dishes (which is the same as what the utaras thought). But the reason behind the balik kampung thing, is really kind of true. Like my paksu who married a kelanatese women (it is important to mention 'women' after what happened right now -.-"), he kind of always go back from penang to kelantan every 2-3 weeks. Fuh. Driving to kelantan is waayyyy big deal, seriously. I might considering by flight, but hell not by car, hell no. So its kinda make sense for them to think of this. Small but big thing, really.

Okeh full stop. I dont have any point anymore. But this is my experience in observing people. If anything you disagree, just comment it below!

Salam.

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